| Location | Grantham - Lincolnshire |
| Age | 11 years |
| Cause of Death | Road Traffic Collision |
| Date of Birth | 09/06/1995 |
| Date of Death | 09/09/2006 |
| Visitors | 13,773 since 03/07/2008 |
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★ Stefan Ross Stephenson-Simpson. ★
★ 9.6.1995 ★ ~ ♰ 9.9.2006 ...please take time to read all of this thou it is so heart breaking it's all true... thank you to everyone who has lite a candle and added a tribute to my son stefan...
Stefan was born in Grantham hospital on 9 June 1995 at..20-40 hour.s 8-40pm he weighted 8lb's-14oz's. He had the sweetest little face I've ever seen. lovely blue eye's and Blonde hair. My special little boy was here at last to join the rest of his special sister and brother's...
My son Stefan Ross Stephenson-Simpson was killed in a car crash 9.9.2006. after being out with his dad an dads mate Darren hull they had gone 2 Twyford woods Bourne road Nr Grantham in there car with there bikes on the back, for a couple hours josh Stefan,s younger brother was going 2 go he changed his mind at the last minute. Stefan loved being in the woods messing about on his new bike, on there way home Ross Stefan,s dad went to pull out onto the main road he never got right across to the right lane before a silver Merrcades Bennze car came speeding round the Conner 120MPH up to Ross,s driver side view hit the back right side of the car and made it spin out of control Stefan was in the back middle seat all down the right side of the car behind Ross.s seat was crushed,it looked just like a tank had run over it.Stefan had been forced into the impact of the crash. Ross got Stefan straight out the back of the car which was wrong but what else can you do when your son,s laying there Stairing up at you dying, an bleeding from his head, eyes, noise, mouth, and ears I would of moved Stefan to, rather than just leave him to die the ambulance seemed to take ages to get to Stefan it wasn't any use when it did get there Stefan had to have the air ambulance out instead.
Stefan had to be Ressusatated 3 times 1 by the road side by Ross, 2 in the air ambulance Suffering 7 half hours in pain and brain damaged Stefan never woke up, taken to Lincoln County Hospital by air ambulance which was the wrong hospital, it was meant to be Queens Medical Nottingham where surgeons done all they could to save him. I was asked did i want to turn the life support machine of as they could not do anything more for Stefan which i done. Believe me it was hard to do. i had no choice so i did this.
10 minutes after Stefan had died i left the hospital room i don,t no why but when i looked round at Stefan to say stay with me i saw Stefan standing in front of me shouting mum don't leave me.I fought i was hearing things so i went to walk away Stefan shouted to me 3 times, Mum don't leave me.i still here him shouting mum don't leave me, every night.
Stefan died at 11.45pm I was with Stefan His dad Ross sister an brother Lisa an Josh where there to when he died. Stefan's nanny iris and his uncle martin where out side the hospital room.
Stefan had to have a post Mortuem.
He was brought back to Grantham for Burriel, I dressed Stefan done his hair and brought Stefan home over night. TO GRESLEY COURT GRANTHAM.
I stopped with him all night. Stefan was buried on 18.9.2006 at 245. in Grantham.
I wanted to carry Stefan,s coffin but i was advised not to this was wrong i should of been aloud to.Stefan is my son not just a dead body in a coffin.
Stefan was treated with no respect.
Stefan i will never forget you my beloved son we will always love you.
love your mum xxxxxxxxxx
dad, Lisa an Josh xxxxxxxxxx
Stefan went to Spitalgate Primary school then St Hughs Secondry school in Grantham for 3 days he love it and made loads of friends.
He was a happy loving son very helpful everybody loved him xxxxxxxx
He will be with his lil sister Angel-Stefane and her twin .. and there cousin Debbie Stephenson who also died in a car crash on same road 2 years before. there grand parents and Aunty Tracy Stephenson who died of a brain Hemerage in feb 2008 along with 4 other family members of same family that's 11 gone in 5 years.
I don't no if there's a Heaven up there i just hope for all family's sake that there is x
My son Stefan had an inquest into his death on 2.6.2007 it went as follows:
The driver of the car that killed my son, (i wont say his name), walked away from court FREE. through lack of evidence or so they say even though there where witnesses to say he was on his mobile phone and speeding. The laws on people speeding and on their mobile phones killing people need to be sentenced to DEATH penalty. An eye for an eye should mean what is says, we shouldn't have to suffer because of what damage they've done to are families. Stefan is 1 of 7 kid's that i have.. he has 1 big sister Lisa 19 Jason 18 Antony 17 Josh 10 and his little special angel sister and her twin,, i don't now what sex the baby was..who's with him in heaven called Angel.. who would of been 2 this November.. i love them all so much i would be lost without them all. my 3 special angel's will still be with me in spirit if not in life xxx xxx xxxxxx. Stefan's lil sister has a website please take time to read it.ANGEL-STEFANE STEPHENSON XXX thank u all so much for lighting candles for STEFAN
stefan
im so sorry son for not being on you site for a while it all got to much for me' i hope darren is with you now he passed away 29th december 2011 b look after each other love mum xxx xxx
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ALL MY LOVE TO ALL MY ANGLES
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Here's a festive greeting
Thats as special as they come
So from my family to yours,
May your day be filled with fun
And happy memories from yesteryear.
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(( HAPPY CHRISTMAS TO YOU ALL HAPPY NEW YEAR .))
I would like to thank you all of you my dear friends for ever thing you do for my angles love you all big hugs. It helps to know you all care and love them too and understand to all of you are my support and help keep me going love you all for that take care all my love Sylvie bye for now.
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Thinking of you at Christmastime
You're in my thoughts today
You've only gone to Heaven
To watch over us each day.
Today we'll spend together
just like we always do
I'm sending Christmas Wishes
with love
from me to you.
Christmas blessings
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GOODNIGHT GODBLESS ANGEL ~
`♥ Christmas Without You`♥
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Christmas without you here with me,
can never possibly be the same.
But I carry an Angel within my heart;
one so precious, who has your name.
An Angel forever watching over me,
at Christmas time, and over the year.
Although you can't be here anymore,
inside my heart, you are so very near.
There is no special present for you,
wrapped up under my Christmas tree.
But I have a greater gift to give to you;
all the love you can still feel from me.
No, Christmas time without you here,
could not ever possibly be the same.
But, I have had the precious gift of you,
and the memories and love, will remain.
� Pamela Hall
All my love Sylvie
STEFAN
we all miss you so much been 5 yrs since you where taken from us wish i ...your mum... could turn the time back to when i last seen you, you shouted something to me ...to this day i still do not know what it was i couldn't hear what you said ,ive been to see a spiriualist to see what they can tell me well not much luck with that they couldn't answer it thow they did tell me a few things that i already knew about you missing you so much stefan love always and forever mum dad lisa josh your 2 neise;s ellymay and mika and family xxxxx xxxxxxxxxx xxxxxxxxxxxx xxxxxxxxxxxx
my son stefan
hi stefan been to see you today not good i still cant get my head round lossing you 5 yrs today and im still lossing controll miss you always and forever love mum xxxxxxxxxxxx
Remembering Our Son - by Mariane Holbrook
We'll only remember the good things
Like the day when our baby was born.
How he filled all our lives with such pleasure,
Never knowing that now we would mourn.
We'll only remember the good days,
Like the day when he ran to our arms
And he flashed his big smile so endearing
And displayed his unique baby charms.
We'll only remember the good things
Like the presents he wrapped with his love
And presented his heart to his parents
Like a gift straight from heaven above.
We'll only remember the fun times
When our family would gather as one,
And our laughter would fill all our household
At the antics of him, our dear Son.
So today though we mourn at his passing
And we wipe sorrow's tears from our eyes,
We'll remember this Son whom God gave us
And brought so much joy to our lives.
Copyright � 2006 Mariane Holbrook
ღ ღ ღ All My Love Beautiful Angel ღ ღ ღ
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How will heaven be?
As far as I can see
It will have huge bells
And will be situated on clouds
It will have many golden wells
That will so often swell
Rain will be abundant
And the sun will shine all day long
Angels will play on the harp
The sweetest summer song
Music that will touch the heart
While those beneath will shed drops of sorrow
Little will they know what will happen on the morrow
But to them up above
As plain and clear it will be
As far as far as I can see
Yes there will be misty alleys
And lush green meadows
Fresh with the fragrant smell of spring
Winter will never be bitter
Summer never so hot
Autumn never so bare
And resources never so scarce
Food for all will be relished by all.
Grateful we’ll be as grateful can be
Mountains high and strong and brown
Surrounding that hidden land,
Beautiful and vast seas I see
There colour as blue as sapphire can be
And the white waves lashing upon the shore
Sitting on the flattened grey rocks
Who would not call it absolutely heavenly?
However it might actually be,
But can we still not see
There will lie behind this seen
A relieving feeling of bliss
For where not have we been
But is this not by all believed
That after one’s decease
This is the land of eternal peace
Where we all ultimately reach?
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stefan 16
happy 16th birthday stefan missed so much always loved we all miss you so much love mum dad josh lisa happy 16th uncle stefan we love you xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx xxxxxxxxxxxx xxxxxxxxxxxxxx xxxxxxxx
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